It’s Okay to Make Mistakes…

It’s Okay to Make Mistakes…

It’s Okay to Make Mistakes…

You hurt someone who loved you more than his life, it’s okay, you had no intention to it. Because you too are hurt and things go erroneously sometimes when you have no idea about it. 

You failed the trust of someone; it’s okay, I know you are still trying to regain it. Because you too were always been betrayed and cheated on. 

You lied and hid many deep thoughts, it’s okay; I know you have been drowning with guilt inside… Because you too have been lied to many times in life.

You made someone cry, it’s okay, life teaches few people the hard way and you were the teacher for them. Because you too cried thousands of tears, woke up with a wet pillow every morning with months of suffering.

You cheated when someone was completely into you… it’s okay, not always people cheat out of a faulty purpose. Because you too were hoaxed once and you could still not move out completely from the past. 

You spoke harsh words to the one who longed for you, it’s okay to sometimes tell people that they need to be corrected the tough way. Life is not always gold, sometimes treasure comes from coal mines.

You made a mistake bringing someone in your life, just to fill the void inside you… it’s okay, we always need someone to pull us out of a situation. Because you never knew what will happen in the future, all you needed at that time was someone who can momentarily heal your pain.

You said sorry and were not forgiven; it’s okay to leave them. They never loved you much to forgive you. You repented for your mistakes but were demeaned for it… it’s okay to stop apologizing now. You never wanted to hurt him, it was done unwittingly.

If you have already apologized hundreds of times and killing yourself each day out of guilt and sadness; they are not worth all this. It’s okay to make false promises once in your life. The way everyone is learning, you too learned from your inaccuracies. 

Understand… A person who claims that he loves you; like there is no end to it, their life revolves around you and only you; then they must have that ocean big heart to forgive you.

No matter how much you miss talking to them now, if they don’t forgive you and understand the value of the passing time… they will regret one day, they will learn to forgive one day, and they will understand that you never did anything out of the intent of aching them. 

Learn to forgive yourself, do not seek forgiveness from others. It takes a big heart to forgive and it takes courage to accept others’ flaws and love them anyway. Having guilt in your heart is itself enough that you are sorry for the wrong doings you did in life.

This time, do not let anyone disgrace your heart, your plea and drive you a cluster of guilt forever to hold. Release that prisoner from your heart and free yourself from the chains of remorse. Live free, love again, and build gaps. For life is just one and we are humans after all; we live with imperfections.